be your authentic self

Where Good Girls Learn to Attract the Beautiful Love and Life You Truly Desire!

From Exhausted, People-Pleasing, Over-Giving, and being a “Good Girl” to Be Your Authentic Self so that you can be Loved and Adored For Who You Really Are!

ARE YOU READY TO BE LOVED AND ADORED FOR WHO YOU REALLY ARE?

What if your relationship and life could go from everyday struggle to effortless magic and flow?

It’s time to Stop Accepting Crumbs, trying to “make it work,” and let go of all the struggle.

Are you ready to stop feeling anxious and insecure in your relationship?

You can learn to create the secure, deep, connected, and thriving relationship & Life you desire!

And to feel truly seen, heard, and deeply loved for who you are!

That all starts by learning how to create an Amazing Relationship to get the closeness and connection back with him!

LEARN HOW TO GO FROM STRUGGLE TO PEACE & FLOW WITH MY CHEATSHEET!

Are you ready to learn the “easy way” to a peaceful, connected, & close relationship?

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Discover The Secret To Have an Amazing & Fulfilling Relationship the "Easy Way."​
​Goodbye Exhaustion, Fear, & Loneliness… Hello Energy, Self-Respect, & Love!

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    I’ve been there…

    I’ve stayed small and shrunk myself down… every day because even the tiniest chance of getting disliked, judged, and rejected … was too painful to bear.

    I worked my ass off at a job I hated and was stuck in a bad relationship for years because of patterns of people-pleasing, over-giving, and selflessness!

    I kept putting others first and worked so hard for love and attention … but no matter how hard I worked, or did things the “right way,” I never felt seen, heard, secure, or loved by him.

    I showed up every day being a “good girl”…..never making waves, always accomodating, and being compliant, having no idea how to speak my truth and use my voice!

    I was just so exhausted and when I tried putting myself first…for once…I felt guilty and selfish!

    I felt lost and empty because I had to always be perfect and be everything to everyone.

    So I know just how painful it is when you do everything “right”…. yet you feel so unhappy, empty, confused!

    Learn more about my story here.

    We’re chasing after a man’s love and attention, thinking it will make you whole and happy… but it doesn’t …

    Are you DONE being small, settling for less than you deserve, and betraying yourself in order to make a relationship work?

    Good news…you don’t have to keep chasing after a man for attention or love…you can draw him in effortlessly!

    You can take matters into your own hands NOW Step into the most authentic version of yourself so that you can finally feel secure within yourself and attract a fulfilling and thriving relationship the easy way! 

    You have the power to attract and create the relationship and the life you truly deserve ….

    I’ll show you how!

    What People Are Saying

    • "I was seeking out a professional to help me navigate my way out of a toxic relationship and family, when I had seen Phoenix’s videos online. Almost every video resonated with the real life experiences I had endured with said family. When we connected, she was beyond generous and empathetic. With her coaching, she gifted me the insight and strength I desperately needed. She’s so approachable, that what could have been an uncomfortable conversation, turned into a fluid, effortless purge of topics I wanted to discuss for years, yet couldn’t with others. I greatly appreciate Phoenix’s ability to connect on a personal level as well, as she shared her own vulnerable experiences, which made me feel much less isolated in mine. She truly is an earth angel with years of insight and experience she uses to help heal others."

      Leila Herbert

    • "Coach Phoenix has been an amazing coach! I've only been seeing her for four weeks and already I'm experiencing a difference in my daily interactions and day to day life. She has the best tools and books that help me understand my trauma and sort through the feelings that come with it. She has made me realize I don't have to live miserable anymore! She's proved that healing IS possible."

      Chanelle Powell

    • “When I came to Phoenix for coaching, I didn't know how to take care of myself or put my needs first. I felt so exhausted and like I was just surviving my life instead of living it. Everyday, I had to people please and put myself last to get acceptance from others. After getting coaching, I'm now valuing how I feel, standing up for myself, and I'm showing up in a whole new way in my relationships! Coaching with her felt easy and supportive and I'm so happy I chose her as my coach! I highly recommend her if you're needing any help."

      Beth Stewart

    • "I was struggling with my inner critic, massive anxiety, and lots of anger. After a few months of coaching, I've learned to listen, control my feelings, my thoughts, and deal with my inner critic. I have completely changed for the better because of her help! Now I think things through, and no longer let my feelings control me. She literally took a broken, dysfunctional, unreliable person and turned me into a healthy, happy, functional and reliable man. My life has been completely changed. I cannot thank her enough! Words just don't express my true gratitude."

      Miles Flint

    • “My relationship was at an impasse due to my partners insecurity and control issues. I didn't know how to get through to my partner or how to set boundaries. After Phoenix's coaching, I felt validated and understood. She helped me to identify my boundaries and communicate without blaming. Now my husband is getting help and we are healing together. With her help I am able to communicate how I feel and understand that I shouldn't feel bad for getting upset and I should better understand my emotions and not react right away. I feel so much better tackling a situation due to being able to handle my feelings!"

      Casey Hunley

    Feel like you keep attracting the same things and yet no matter how hard you work or give….nothing ever changes…

    But what if things started to shift for you…like magic?

    Imagine….

    Go from being too “nice,” and people-pleasing patterns… to being Truly Free to be yourself and effortlessly attract fulfilling relationships!

    Go From feeling not enough and undeserving to feeling worthy inside and out & attracting an amazing compatible partner.

    From trying to “make things happen” and working really hard for love and attention to feeling good and happy EFFORTLESSLY!

    From working yourself to death, always going going going…. to being fully present, and experiencing the joy and magic that is in your life NOW… that you can’t see.

    From feeling burnt out and always exhausted to having boundless time and energy for yourself.

    From trading self-sacrifice and guilt to supporting yourself fiercely and loving yourself fully!

    From feeling confused and empty… to feeling whole and always enough!

    You CAN truly transform your life like MAGIC!

    That’s what my Self Love Protocol and Feminine Energy Tools did for me, so I know they’ll work for you too!

    Please don’t waste years of your life waiting on your guy to feel seen, heard, accepted, loved, or “get his shit together” like I did.

    When you can first begin shifting inside of yourself, then things will effortlessly shift with him.

    Hi. I’m Coach Phoenix.

    I’m a Self Love Expert and Relationship Coach with M.A. in Counseling, a Certified Practitioner, Trained in the Art of Feminine Energy, and trauma-informed.

    What if the situation that caged you ignites the fire that shapes you into who you truly are?

    When You’re Ready to Break Free from the People-Pleaser -“Good Girl” Role and Start Finding Yourself Again, DONE Being Who Others Want You To Be, and Your Soul Is Calling You To Be Free To Become Your Authentic Self and Create a Rich Life with an amazing relationship and all you deserve….

    Are you ready? Let’s go!

    Private Coaching will help you grow soo much faster and easier than going it alone!

    • Trade your People-Pleasing and Good Girl Patterns for Taking Your Power Back and Growing Your Inner Badass to be Free to Live Your Life the exact way that makes you feel good…no longer chained to the shoulds, musts, have-to’s, and need-to’s!

    • No longer seek external approval, acceptance, and validation and instead can show up as who you want to be…NOT who the world has told you to be!

    • Stop looking for love outside of yourself and in one-sided relationships and learn how to fall in love with yourself

    • Heal the fear, confusion, and indecision that is running your life

    • Honor, set, and stick to your boundaries

    • Stop being too hard on yourself and neglecting yourself and start learning how to meet your own needs

    • Let go of needing outward approval and validation and live your life in the present moment

    • Develop self-trust and security in yourself no matter what happens in your life

    • Stop pointing the finger at your symptoms and start pointing it at the problem

    • Feel FREE to live your life the way you want to live it!

    • Feel seen, heard, and finally understood in a safe and caring container by someone who has overcome what you’re going through

    • Get the mental and emotional freedom that comes with learning how to handle your feelings and trust yourself

      Click the button to chat with me directly and take the first step!

    the path to happiness

    • Become the woman who dares to be loud, knows her worth, and always gets the guy.

      -Phoenix

    • When you let go of what's hurting you, feel your fear, and move toward your desires, life becomes exciting and exhilarating!

      -Phoenix

    • There’s nothing “wrong” with you….when you idealize love, you’ll go to any lengths just to get crumbs.

      -Phoenix

    • It takes enormous courage and bravery to step outside of your comfort zone and step into the unknown.

      -Phoenix