Push Pull Dynamic in Relationships
END the Push Pull Dynamic in Relationships LIKE THIS!!
Relationships where there is a push pull dynamic are HORRIBLE! They are also called Hot and Cold and they keep us miserable, unhappy, and addicted to someone who is BAD for us.
Relationships are supposed to be a two way street but when you get involved with someone who is unavailable, toxic, or worse…. a narcissist, the push pull is how this person maintains the control in the relationship!! They dangle what you want right in front of your face, making the most beautiful promises all to get your hopes up but their words and actions never line up! These words are said to manipulate and control you NOT to comfort and reassure you of their love and devotion.
It is a very toxic dynamic and one that will wreak havoc on your heart, mind, and body.
“In this push-pull dance, one partner seeks greater connection but grows increasingly critical when connection is elusive. The other partner seeks greater autonomy and increasingly withdraws in the face of complaints and pressure.
Underneath this frustrating cycle lies the differing attachment styles of partners. Its estimated that half of all adults have an insecure attachment style that can lead to either a pursuing or distancing stance in relationships.” Dan Neuharth, PhD, MFT
What Should You Do About It this Push Pull Dynamic?
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